Berapa Orang Anak Dah?

Amboi soalan, kot belum kawin sebuk tanya dah ada boifren ke? bila nak kawin? dah kawin tanya bila nak dapat anak? dah ada anak plak tanya baper orang anak dah? kot anak ramai ckp plak. ramainya anak2 ko? takpun sorang jer ke? takde nak tambah. Gitu la yer cik kiah ahli mesyuarat tingkap, semua hal orang dia nak amek tau...walhal anak sendiri kat belakang buat anak senyap2 walaupun masih sidara/siteruna hihihihi..jejaga cik kiah cikman. Jangan sibuk hal orang tau.

Berbalik kisah berapa anak kita nak. Rasanya suma benda kena kira2 la sekarang. Tapi kalau terlebih terkurang tu memang rejeki yang Allah bagi, alhamdulillah kita hanya merancang Allah yang memberi kita terima anugerah tu & tugas kita tuk pelihara dan didik sesempurna yang mungkin. Rasanya takde ideal number for every parent. Macam saya...umur pun dah nak masuk 34 kan..pastu history dah 2x csection..maka-nya saya memilih tuk 1x jer lagi ..tapi 3tahun lagi la. meh kita kira2 baper la budget tuk anak2 kan? Ni budget agak2 tuk infant & toddler. Average la.

Diapers - 190 (Mamypoko, Drypers & Pantz)
Susu - 160 (susu murah & fully BF)
Baju2an & Food - 150
Babysitter - 400
Total = RM900/mth

wah wah wahhhhhhh...tu belum lagi antar skol, beli buku2, beli toys...baju pun beli yg takde la mahal2 kan. Saya nih lucky la duk umah jer, babysit anak sendiri. Orang2 lain tu? Tak mampu sayaa. Tapi apa hal, kita bekerja tuk anak2 kan? pandai2 lah berjimat2 & mencari rejeki yer dak.

Jadi, saya sangat salute makkbapak yg ada anak ramai..tinggi belanja budak2 ni. Kesimpulannya, saya hanya plan 3 sahaja. Kot yang ke3 tak dapat girl, pasrah...blh recycle baju abang2nya huahuahuaaaa..kejam benar. Tapi betui ke nak recycle? hihihihi. Korang plak cemana?

"Little children are still the symbol of the eternal marriage between love and duty"

Sue!

Anak Demam = Tak Best

Hisham ada bunga2 nak demam, monyok, grumpy, cranky, main taknak, sembang2 takde mood, mata kuyu & nak tido jer. Suma gara2 suntikan tambahan 1tahun 6bulan tu. Nyampah ai. Sat lagi bercinta nak bagi makan ubat kat dia, siap lah kau dia lagi kuat dari gorilla....jangan hang duk tendang pewot mummy yer abang cham.

Sian aye

Sian dia...harini tak dapek nak hapdet blog sangat..ada pesakit kena jaga ..get well soon sayang!

"Always be there for you my dear son"

Sue!

A Day Without Kids

Syioknyaaaaaa

Cemana tu nak bayangkan? Ohhh baru tingat, dulu kan pernah single. Sorry la anak2, masa korang takde mummy bebas sebebas burung, berbelanja tanpa batasan...uihhhh enjoy. La nih, i dun think i can live without them, wpun sorg  tu suka lari pusing2 sampai terbelit tangan ai dengan pegang si tembam. Hari2ku tanpa budak 2 orang tu akan jadi muram belaka...ceeehhhh walhal, big relieve hihihi.

How can we abandon this 2 heroes?isk  isk isk

Mana blh tinggal..dua2 dah melekat mcm handbag..kena angkut sana sini. yerlah, mummy redha.

"I have a dream that my two little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.

Sue!

Detik Yang Indah

Antara waktu-waktu yang indah bagi saya adalah :

Study time...masa tu kat UKM-kpyp during matriculation & UKM college itself. meh ushar gambo classic..macam2 ado

 

 

My wedding xoxo - 26/10/2007

My babies - Anak-anak yang disayangi..Hisham Aariz & Emir. xoxo

"Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose"

Sue!

Anak Oh Anak

Untuk anak-anak, kita sanggup berkorban apa saja. Tu naluri seorang ibu & bapa. The sense of responsibility for a mother even start during the pregnancy. Betui dak?

Jadi, berapa pun jumlah anak yang kita ada, rasa tanggungjawab itu akan semakin bertambah sentiasa..dari mula pegnen tanggungjawab nak jaga fetus dlm kandungan, apaknya layankan ajer karenah mak yg macam2, bila sampai masa nak keluar merasai proses nak bersalin yang hanya Ibu2 sahaja yang tau macam mana. Kalau ibu2 tanya saya, saya prefer czer hihihihi..trauma kau beranak normal.

Baby dah keluar nak kena jaga dia sampai la pandai berjalan, lega sikit rasa. Dahtu dalam masa yang sama kita perlu ajar apa yang perlu untuk anak2, dan jalankan tanggungjawab dirumah. phewww. Supermom lah...

Ayuh kita share ilmu parenting & how we can improve ourself to be one. At the same time, i know all mother/father out there want their kid to be brilliant, successful & able to be outstanding in any area. An me as a muslim, i want my kids grow in a conducive environment and become a good muslim too. Meh kita share ilmu parenting in islam yg blh kita prektik kan ;-).

Provide education....

This is the main responsibility as a parent..we must make sure our child is equip with right education. In any way, it have to include in the broadest possible sense including all things that could assist the child to become a good and right human being. It can be formal & informal way of teaching.

Quran & Responsibility...

Teach them about what is written is Quran. It does say about responsibilities they should have to human & non-human. And it should be taught from their earliest age.

Believe...

Teach them to believe..i mean strongly believe! Because, anything that you believe will happen is more likely to happen because you will find ways (both consciously and unconsciously) to make sure it happens, and anything that you don't believe will happen is less likely to happen because you will find ways to make sure it doesn't happen; this fact is known as the 'self-fulfilling prophesy'. 

Love...

Kids should know n understand about love...love them and they will love us back! as easy as A B C. At the same time teach them to love Allah, The Prophet, Islam, and Islamic values.

Understand n Adapt... 

Teach your child to see all things and understand all things from the perspective of Islam. And surely they will adapt.

Do not hit ur child...

Do not hit them when u r angry, but is allowed if it necessary. But punishment can only become necessary if you have no positive alternative.

Secara jujurnya, saya masih seorang ibu yg khilaf..kadang2 lupa bagaimana mahu hadapi karenah anak2. Lelebih lagi bila mereka betul2 tak boleh dikawal. Harap dapat kita memperbaiki diri agar jadi a good role model for our children. Amin!

To my little heroes...mommy love u both!

"We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today."

Sue!

One

Banyak yang boleh dikaitkan dengan ONE....apa tu? Mari kita intai-intai.

ONEderful Day....

Semoga hari-hari kita yang seterusnya akan seindah ini.Amin.



ONEder Woman....

Untuk ibu-ibu...kita adalah wonder woman. period!


ONEtan soup...

Ya Allah...lamanya tak makan wantan soup...grgrrrrrg.



ONE-HD...

Jadi gilak kalau tak layan ONE-HD...awwwwwwwwww


Last but not least....

1Malaysia...

Layankan saja.



Jadi apa signifikan-nya ONE dalam hidup saya. Hmmmm...tak banyak rasanya. Saya ada 1 asben, 1 makbapak, 1 kete, 1 rumah. Itu je ke? Hopefully next year i will make it more. insyaAllah!


Sue!

The Family Is A Haven In A Heartless World

Benda yang pertama yang saya sayangi adalah keluarga. Saya tak pasti orang lain, tapi my family...they will be there and always be there for me. It include my hubby, childrens, siblings & most importantly my parent & inlaw. Saya mengharapkan bonding yang sama akan terbina within my kids later.

Bila kita belum pikul tanggungjawab sebagai ibubapa, we would appreciate less our parent, but the moment we had that responsibilities, we understand more their difficulties. It was not easy, but it is not difficult either. We show & shower our love to our kids, we educate them, insyaAllah..they will follow our good deeds.

Thank you, Mom.
Thank you, Dad.
Three small words.
So much to add.
For all your love and your support
a million words would be too short.
The words, "I love you"
seem too few to express the love
I have for you.



Alfatihah tuk Allahyarham Aini bin Ismail, its been a year & we miss u ayah.

To my siblings.....

"The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together."

To my own family...hubby & kids...xoxo

"When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses."

Sue!