Anak Tak Sah Taraf

Kesian budak2 ni, mereka tak berdosa tapi terpalit dosa2 tu kat dorang sepanjang hidup. Kita bayangkan kalau anak tu perempuan, adakah kita sebagai ibu bapa dari 1st impression akan redha menerima dengan ikhlas tanpa ada berdetik lansung? Lepas tu yang lebih sadis dorang dipandang serong :(. leave them alone, jangan samakan dorg dengan perangai mak apak yang tak bertanggungjawab tu.

Kalau kiranya mereka masih dijaga oleh mak bapak yang sebenar, bimbing la mereka & jangan la biarkan dorg ulang lagi perangai buruk korang. Kot kalau yang jaga tuk atuk, lindungilah mereka...camtu jugak kalau yg jaga tu makbapak angkat...lindungi la mereka. never let it happen again.

When i read Utusan Malaysia, imagine...ada 152,000 anak tak sah taraf ni bagi rekod tahun 2008-2011. tahun2 sebelum tu?? korang tau dak kalau anak2 ni dilahirkan sebelum bernikah/kahwin..kat tempat bapa tu tulis *tidak berkenaan*....:(


Islam seeks to protect women's unborn chidren's welfare & rights. Islam proposes marriage as the means of satisfaying one's sexual and personal needs. Only through marriage can healthy families b established and maintained. Healthy family units, in turn, ensure a healthy society and happpiness and safety fr all members of society. no compromise. Jangan nak gedik2, kalau dah gedik sangat kawin cecepat..jaga maruah diri. bila dah terpegnen buat naya diri & anak yg dilahirkan tu jer. Sang lelaki pulak, jaga maruah pompuan...ingat la nanti kot ko ada anak pompuan cemana rasa???

Sue!

Anak Oh Anak

Untuk anak-anak, kita sanggup berkorban apa saja. Tu naluri seorang ibu & bapa. The sense of responsibility for a mother even start during the pregnancy. Betui dak?

Jadi, berapa pun jumlah anak yang kita ada, rasa tanggungjawab itu akan semakin bertambah sentiasa..dari mula pegnen tanggungjawab nak jaga fetus dlm kandungan, apaknya layankan ajer karenah mak yg macam2, bila sampai masa nak keluar merasai proses nak bersalin yang hanya Ibu2 sahaja yang tau macam mana. Kalau ibu2 tanya saya, saya prefer czer hihihihi..trauma kau beranak normal.

Baby dah keluar nak kena jaga dia sampai la pandai berjalan, lega sikit rasa. Dahtu dalam masa yang sama kita perlu ajar apa yang perlu untuk anak2, dan jalankan tanggungjawab dirumah. phewww. Supermom lah...

Ayuh kita share ilmu parenting & how we can improve ourself to be one. At the same time, i know all mother/father out there want their kid to be brilliant, successful & able to be outstanding in any area. An me as a muslim, i want my kids grow in a conducive environment and become a good muslim too. Meh kita share ilmu parenting in islam yg blh kita prektik kan ;-).

Provide education....

This is the main responsibility as a parent..we must make sure our child is equip with right education. In any way, it have to include in the broadest possible sense including all things that could assist the child to become a good and right human being. It can be formal & informal way of teaching.

Quran & Responsibility...

Teach them about what is written is Quran. It does say about responsibilities they should have to human & non-human. And it should be taught from their earliest age.

Believe...

Teach them to believe..i mean strongly believe! Because, anything that you believe will happen is more likely to happen because you will find ways (both consciously and unconsciously) to make sure it happens, and anything that you don't believe will happen is less likely to happen because you will find ways to make sure it doesn't happen; this fact is known as the 'self-fulfilling prophesy'. 

Love...

Kids should know n understand about love...love them and they will love us back! as easy as A B C. At the same time teach them to love Allah, The Prophet, Islam, and Islamic values.

Understand n Adapt... 

Teach your child to see all things and understand all things from the perspective of Islam. And surely they will adapt.

Do not hit ur child...

Do not hit them when u r angry, but is allowed if it necessary. But punishment can only become necessary if you have no positive alternative.

Secara jujurnya, saya masih seorang ibu yg khilaf..kadang2 lupa bagaimana mahu hadapi karenah anak2. Lelebih lagi bila mereka betul2 tak boleh dikawal. Harap dapat kita memperbaiki diri agar jadi a good role model for our children. Amin!

To my little heroes...mommy love u both!

"We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today."

Sue!

One

Banyak yang boleh dikaitkan dengan ONE....apa tu? Mari kita intai-intai.

ONEderful Day....

Semoga hari-hari kita yang seterusnya akan seindah ini.Amin.



ONEder Woman....

Untuk ibu-ibu...kita adalah wonder woman. period!


ONEtan soup...

Ya Allah...lamanya tak makan wantan soup...grgrrrrrg.



ONE-HD...

Jadi gilak kalau tak layan ONE-HD...awwwwwwwwww


Last but not least....

1Malaysia...

Layankan saja.



Jadi apa signifikan-nya ONE dalam hidup saya. Hmmmm...tak banyak rasanya. Saya ada 1 asben, 1 makbapak, 1 kete, 1 rumah. Itu je ke? Hopefully next year i will make it more. insyaAllah!


Sue!

The Family Is A Haven In A Heartless World

Benda yang pertama yang saya sayangi adalah keluarga. Saya tak pasti orang lain, tapi my family...they will be there and always be there for me. It include my hubby, childrens, siblings & most importantly my parent & inlaw. Saya mengharapkan bonding yang sama akan terbina within my kids later.

Bila kita belum pikul tanggungjawab sebagai ibubapa, we would appreciate less our parent, but the moment we had that responsibilities, we understand more their difficulties. It was not easy, but it is not difficult either. We show & shower our love to our kids, we educate them, insyaAllah..they will follow our good deeds.

Thank you, Mom.
Thank you, Dad.
Three small words.
So much to add.
For all your love and your support
a million words would be too short.
The words, "I love you"
seem too few to express the love
I have for you.



Alfatihah tuk Allahyarham Aini bin Ismail, its been a year & we miss u ayah.

To my siblings.....

"The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together."

To my own family...hubby & kids...xoxo

"When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses."

Sue!