A Day Without Kids

Syioknyaaaaaa

Cemana tu nak bayangkan? Ohhh baru tingat, dulu kan pernah single. Sorry la anak2, masa korang takde mummy bebas sebebas burung, berbelanja tanpa batasan...uihhhh enjoy. La nih, i dun think i can live without them, wpun sorg  tu suka lari pusing2 sampai terbelit tangan ai dengan pegang si tembam. Hari2ku tanpa budak 2 orang tu akan jadi muram belaka...ceeehhhh walhal, big relieve hihihi.

How can we abandon this 2 heroes?isk  isk isk

Mana blh tinggal..dua2 dah melekat mcm handbag..kena angkut sana sini. yerlah, mummy redha.

"I have a dream that my two little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.

Sue!

Selamat Pagi Kawan2ku

Saya sangat hargai kawan2 disekeliling, yang rapat, yang so-so rapat, yang kureng rapat dan yang tak rapat lansung. Suma ai suka lah! Tapi rasanya macam kenkawan jer yg lupakan daku si surirumah yang 24jam duk berkepit dgn anak2 jer...huahuaaaa. Takpo lah korang, ada masa kita kuar sesama yer wpun korg taknak invite ai, ai tetap akan muncul hahaha!


When i treasure value in my friendship, i believe it does include all this...

"Sympathy and empathy, honesty, mutual understanding & compassion, enjoyment of each other's company, trust and give and take."

Tapi kau jangan sesekali buat benda2 ni yer, ai dun like toxic fren ni...nanti ado yang makan tapak tangan hihihihi.

Yerlah, ko jer yang best

The Promise Breaker - Sket2 mungkir janji, sket2 tak jadi, janji simpan resia tetiba dia jadi reporter plak. Pastu tak reti2 nak berubah...haaa lempang mau? :p

 

The Double-crosser - Ni kita panggil talam dua muka. Of course, this negative friend betrays you big-time. eh eh cik peah ni, hari2 makan kueh talam ke hah kau?

The Discloser - ni lagi bahaya, dan2 kita ckp apa hot sensasi citer pastu janji setia tutop mulot...dia terus amek tepon, sms, twitter, update facebook status, email..booom citer hangat. memang radio karat lah. aihh, seletep jari2 & mulot tu kang.

 

The Competitor - Ni kesah yang jaki nengok kawan2 dia bahagia, senang, berjaya dia start la nak compete. berlumba2 nak menang & lebih dari orang lain. Dia la yang maha hebat, anak2 dia la yg lagi best, anak2 korg tak best..aku jer best. ikat kang tiang baru tau.

 

The Fault-finder - ni taktau la jenis yang jatuh dari planet mana. suma orang buat dia tengok tak elok, tak best, hodoh, buruk, comot & segala bagai yg negative la. shoooh shooohh kau duk la dgn kawan2 yg 4 orang kat atas tu hihihihi.

Al-kisah bila ai terjumpa jenis2 yang seperti di atas, memang sayonara hi-hi bye-bye jer. maleh den nak jumpa ekau. hiks! Saya rasa nak letak gambo kawan2, tapi eh tak blh la, kang kenkawan yg lain plak claim kata eh aku ni fall dlm kategori yg 5 tu ke sampai gambo aku takde. walhal bukan suma gambo ader...hihihi. Kawan2, saya tetap suka korg2 suma wpun korg tak suka ai except jenis2 5 di atas. dorg dah dpt punishment ehehehe.

 

"An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind."

Sue!

Transformation

Saya cadang2 nak carik kete bagi hadiah kat asben. Wahhh mulianya hihihihi...Dia suka kete, kalau nengok tv tu semedang nak nengok channel turbo, sakit ati ai. Meh cek out kete2 pilihan yang saya nak bagi tu.

Hihihihi cemana? ada tak sapa2 yg kenai mana2 yg nak jual junk car..meh share kat saya yer. serious ni :-|. Actually this is his hobby, he love car so much & he like to modified car. Rasa2 nak bagi dia own project, so he can transform kete tu jadi macam kat bawah. Pastu bagi kat ai yer darling ;-)

Bestnya, yang ni ai nak tau

Hakikatnya skrg saya pakai kete myvi jer ekekekekeke..ok lah tu kete juga!

"Fast cars are my only vice."

Sue!

Detik Yang Indah

Antara waktu-waktu yang indah bagi saya adalah :

Study time...masa tu kat UKM-kpyp during matriculation & UKM college itself. meh ushar gambo classic..macam2 ado

 

 

My wedding xoxo - 26/10/2007

My babies - Anak-anak yang disayangi..Hisham Aariz & Emir. xoxo

"Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose"

Sue!

Anak Oh Anak

Untuk anak-anak, kita sanggup berkorban apa saja. Tu naluri seorang ibu & bapa. The sense of responsibility for a mother even start during the pregnancy. Betui dak?

Jadi, berapa pun jumlah anak yang kita ada, rasa tanggungjawab itu akan semakin bertambah sentiasa..dari mula pegnen tanggungjawab nak jaga fetus dlm kandungan, apaknya layankan ajer karenah mak yg macam2, bila sampai masa nak keluar merasai proses nak bersalin yang hanya Ibu2 sahaja yang tau macam mana. Kalau ibu2 tanya saya, saya prefer czer hihihihi..trauma kau beranak normal.

Baby dah keluar nak kena jaga dia sampai la pandai berjalan, lega sikit rasa. Dahtu dalam masa yang sama kita perlu ajar apa yang perlu untuk anak2, dan jalankan tanggungjawab dirumah. phewww. Supermom lah...

Ayuh kita share ilmu parenting & how we can improve ourself to be one. At the same time, i know all mother/father out there want their kid to be brilliant, successful & able to be outstanding in any area. An me as a muslim, i want my kids grow in a conducive environment and become a good muslim too. Meh kita share ilmu parenting in islam yg blh kita prektik kan ;-).

Provide education....

This is the main responsibility as a parent..we must make sure our child is equip with right education. In any way, it have to include in the broadest possible sense including all things that could assist the child to become a good and right human being. It can be formal & informal way of teaching.

Quran & Responsibility...

Teach them about what is written is Quran. It does say about responsibilities they should have to human & non-human. And it should be taught from their earliest age.

Believe...

Teach them to believe..i mean strongly believe! Because, anything that you believe will happen is more likely to happen because you will find ways (both consciously and unconsciously) to make sure it happens, and anything that you don't believe will happen is less likely to happen because you will find ways to make sure it doesn't happen; this fact is known as the 'self-fulfilling prophesy'. 

Love...

Kids should know n understand about love...love them and they will love us back! as easy as A B C. At the same time teach them to love Allah, The Prophet, Islam, and Islamic values.

Understand n Adapt... 

Teach your child to see all things and understand all things from the perspective of Islam. And surely they will adapt.

Do not hit ur child...

Do not hit them when u r angry, but is allowed if it necessary. But punishment can only become necessary if you have no positive alternative.

Secara jujurnya, saya masih seorang ibu yg khilaf..kadang2 lupa bagaimana mahu hadapi karenah anak2. Lelebih lagi bila mereka betul2 tak boleh dikawal. Harap dapat kita memperbaiki diri agar jadi a good role model for our children. Amin!

To my little heroes...mommy love u both!

"We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today."

Sue!

The Family Is A Haven In A Heartless World

Benda yang pertama yang saya sayangi adalah keluarga. Saya tak pasti orang lain, tapi my family...they will be there and always be there for me. It include my hubby, childrens, siblings & most importantly my parent & inlaw. Saya mengharapkan bonding yang sama akan terbina within my kids later.

Bila kita belum pikul tanggungjawab sebagai ibubapa, we would appreciate less our parent, but the moment we had that responsibilities, we understand more their difficulties. It was not easy, but it is not difficult either. We show & shower our love to our kids, we educate them, insyaAllah..they will follow our good deeds.

Thank you, Mom.
Thank you, Dad.
Three small words.
So much to add.
For all your love and your support
a million words would be too short.
The words, "I love you"
seem too few to express the love
I have for you.



Alfatihah tuk Allahyarham Aini bin Ismail, its been a year & we miss u ayah.

To my siblings.....

"The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together."

To my own family...hubby & kids...xoxo

"When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses."

Sue!