Anak Oh Anak

Untuk anak-anak, kita sanggup berkorban apa saja. Tu naluri seorang ibu & bapa. The sense of responsibility for a mother even start during the pregnancy. Betui dak?

Jadi, berapa pun jumlah anak yang kita ada, rasa tanggungjawab itu akan semakin bertambah sentiasa..dari mula pegnen tanggungjawab nak jaga fetus dlm kandungan, apaknya layankan ajer karenah mak yg macam2, bila sampai masa nak keluar merasai proses nak bersalin yang hanya Ibu2 sahaja yang tau macam mana. Kalau ibu2 tanya saya, saya prefer czer hihihihi..trauma kau beranak normal.

Baby dah keluar nak kena jaga dia sampai la pandai berjalan, lega sikit rasa. Dahtu dalam masa yang sama kita perlu ajar apa yang perlu untuk anak2, dan jalankan tanggungjawab dirumah. phewww. Supermom lah...

Ayuh kita share ilmu parenting & how we can improve ourself to be one. At the same time, i know all mother/father out there want their kid to be brilliant, successful & able to be outstanding in any area. An me as a muslim, i want my kids grow in a conducive environment and become a good muslim too. Meh kita share ilmu parenting in islam yg blh kita prektik kan ;-).

Provide education....

This is the main responsibility as a parent..we must make sure our child is equip with right education. In any way, it have to include in the broadest possible sense including all things that could assist the child to become a good and right human being. It can be formal & informal way of teaching.

Quran & Responsibility...

Teach them about what is written is Quran. It does say about responsibilities they should have to human & non-human. And it should be taught from their earliest age.

Believe...

Teach them to believe..i mean strongly believe! Because, anything that you believe will happen is more likely to happen because you will find ways (both consciously and unconsciously) to make sure it happens, and anything that you don't believe will happen is less likely to happen because you will find ways to make sure it doesn't happen; this fact is known as the 'self-fulfilling prophesy'. 

Love...

Kids should know n understand about love...love them and they will love us back! as easy as A B C. At the same time teach them to love Allah, The Prophet, Islam, and Islamic values.

Understand n Adapt... 

Teach your child to see all things and understand all things from the perspective of Islam. And surely they will adapt.

Do not hit ur child...

Do not hit them when u r angry, but is allowed if it necessary. But punishment can only become necessary if you have no positive alternative.

Secara jujurnya, saya masih seorang ibu yg khilaf..kadang2 lupa bagaimana mahu hadapi karenah anak2. Lelebih lagi bila mereka betul2 tak boleh dikawal. Harap dapat kita memperbaiki diri agar jadi a good role model for our children. Amin!

To my little heroes...mommy love u both!

"We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today."

Sue!