My Neighbor, Your Neighbor

Takde jiran rasa mcm best, tapi kalau ada pun bukan la best benar heheee. Tapi kita bukan duk sorg2 kat dunia ni, opkoz la kena ada jiran tetangga. Lelagi kat Malaysia nih umah yang jenis jiran sebelah blh dengar kalau kita naik tangga atau cakap kuat. Jadi kot rasa nak jerit2 tu fikir2 la banyak kali sbb kot ada jiran intip hihihi.


Cemana agaknya nak berhubungan dengan mesra dengan jiran tetangga ni..dah kenai baru tau suka idak...jgn awal sangat buat impression. here we goes....


Introduce yourself - Whether you're new in the neighborhood or new residents have just moved in on your area, introduce yourself. Say hello & salam. Kalau ompteh kita tgk kat desperate housewife tu dorg siap bawak casserole ke umah org yg baru pindah dgn niat nak berkenalan. Tapi experience duk kat malaysia ni, jangan harap huahauuaa...kot nasib ko baik dia tegur la..kalau dak next year baru dpt bersua muka hehe. Maybe ada basic things yg kita boleh buat, macam tanya la..kat sini hari apa org kutip sampah datang, kot ada anak2 tanya kat mana ada tmpt pengasuh atau van nak pi sekolah..camtu lah. ayat pemanas gitu. :)

Be aware of shared walls - If you're in a terrace, condominium, semi-detached house or any structure where you and your neighbors share adjacent living spaces, position noisy household appliances such as washing machines and tumble dryers - even TVs and speakers - away from partition walls. Tapi biasanya, ada aku kesah? hihihihi. tu belum masuk lagi kes orang karaoke, lari2an, drill dinding, anjing menyalak, anak jerit2 (anak ai la ni hihihi) , gaduh mcm setaman boleh dengar and so on. mana yang kita boleh elakkan menggangu ketenteraman jiran, elakkan la yer. Sbb kita pun harap benda yang sama gak



Control your pet - Yang ni ai cukup tak boleh tahan, tak kisah la dog ka cat ka. awak kalau nak ada pet, buat cara ada pet jangan diabaikan sampai menyusahkan orang lain plak. Tolong ajar & bagi makan yang cukup anjing/kucing korang. kalau daaaaaaak aih maleh den nak cakap. Put yourself in their shoes and imagine how upset you'd be if you or perhaps your newborn was woken from a much-needed nap by the sudden barking and screaming by yr dog/cat. Lagi satu kalau dah tanak dua2 species tu, jangan la main lepas  jer sampai dia merayau2 kat compound umah orang. annoying gila.

Practice parking etiquette - Ni masalah paling besar orang malaysia. Parking sesuka hati dia jer..parking yg memang layak nak kena calar kete tu hehehee. When you park your vehicle, be sure not to block anyone's access, or make them have to pull out of a very tight spot. Don't over-rev vrommm vrommmm the engine of your car or motorcycle early in the morning or late at night. Ingat nak pegi race ka. Park in front of your own home, not theirs. Avoid slamming your doors or shining your headlights into your neighbor's windows late at night. Lagi satu, kot dah dpt parking spot depan umah jgn plak anggap tmpt tu ko punya sorg jer..mcm la kawasan umah dia hehee.

Be aware of your surroundings, as well as theirs - Even if you're not in a rukun tetangga, keep your eye on anyone you don't know acting suspiciously around your neighbor's property. When in doubt, call the police so they can quickly curtail any criminal activity. Tapi jangan la jadi jiran super sebuk yang mcm cik kiah majlis mesyuarat tingkap plak, suma hal peribadi org nak tau pastu duk jaja. duk dendiam kat umah jer, bila perlu jer bersuara hehee.

Ada jiran2 yg sangat considerate...macam ai la kan huahuahuaa...ada yg jenis aku tak suka la manusia sebuk2 ni..ada gak yang jenis hey ko jgn pandang aku, luku nak? Apa2 pun...cakap bila perlu jer. mcm hal anak2 ke, kalau ai malas nak campo..bg kawan2 pun kureng sket. sbb ada jenis jiran yg tak blh ditegur...jadi elok la berpada2 jer dgn jiran2 ni. Takyah nak rapat2 beno, kang makan kita plak. eh..ai nih bagi nasihat ke bagi orang sesat hihihi..terpulang lah.


Sue!